Tuesday, October 19, 2010

I have had it up to HERE!!!!

Imagine me holding my hand up past my head as I say : "I have had it up to HERE!!!". The straw has finally broken the camel's back!!! If you talk to me at all you will know that I am not happy where we are living. I don't like the apartments. I don't like the kids we live by. Our neighborhood is ghetto etc. We have been in these apartments for over 6 years now and I have had it. We have had our pumpkins destroyed. We have woken up to broken alcohol bottles on the sidewalk. We have had loud horrible neighbors and one I think was a drug dealer. Needless to say I have put up a lot but Chris hates moving and we couldn't really afford a nicer place. But this past weekend was IT!!! Let me tell you what happened.

First : On Saturday we were having some friends over for dinner and Chris took the boys outside to play while I started dinner. I brought out two of Reid's favorite toys to play with because he usually just crawls around in the grass. One was this little wooden pushing toy that has crocodiles with mouths that open as it is pushed. Riley had it when he was a baby. The other was a little plastic dump truck that made noises. Well, Chris brought Reid in when our friends came and Riley continued to play out side. Chris didn't bring the toys in but Riley was still out there so I didn't think it was a big deal. I thought once " we should bring those toys in" but I didn't and I learned my lesson the hard way. Anyways, when dinner was ready, probably 30 minutes later, Chris goes out to bring Riley in and says that our toys are destroyed. He comes in with small pieces of wood that resemble the toy we once had. I couldn't believe my eyes. I went outside as Chris proceeded to pick up the remains of our nice little toy. I was furious. I started to yell that I wanted to know who broke our toy. Of course no one fessed up so we just picked up the pieces and I swore to never let those kids use any toy again. I asked Riley who broke our toy and he said it was a little 3 year old that lives next door at the same time Chris brings in the little dump truck and it is cracked and broken. The wires are hanging out everywhere and it was ruined. I took it next door and showed it to the boys mom and told her that Riley said that her son was responsible and started to cry and said how bad I felt because we like to share our stuff and now I can't do that because we don't want our stuff ruined. She said sorry but the damage was done.

Second: On Sunday night Chris and I went to a dinner that was for his work. It was at this delicious restaurant in a small town outside of Ann Arbor called Terry B's. We got my dad and step mom to baby sit the boys so we got all dressed up and went out. When we got home down the hill from our place the maintenance guy was working on a door of a lady that we know. We asked my dad what was going on and he said that a little while ago the police came to our door and asked them if they saw anything. It turns out that there was a robbery. Someone kicked in the door of that apartment and stole all of there electronics. Everything is gone, there TV, Playstation 3, their laptop and of course they didn't have insurance. UGH!!! The next morning I got on the phone and got renters insurance. I guess there was another break in of someone else that our neighbors knew.

Our lease is up November 30 and we will be out of here. I know stuff like this can happen anywhere. I know kids and neighbors aren't perfect but I need a change. We are looking at houses to rent and I am excited and nervous at the prospect of moving. I will let you all know what I find.

7 comments:

maryp said...

that made my blood boil! Dumb kids. I hope you find a good place. It sucks hating where you live!!

Elizabeth Downie said...

Good luck, Beth. You shouldn't have to live like that! That's so frustrating. :( I am excited for you guys though - I hope you're able to move somewhere you like!

Meg said...

OH MY GOSH! I am so ticked for you. I mean seriously TICKED. I hope you guys find a wonderful place to live because you totally deserve it.

Linz said...

I am glad you are taking a stand and choosing to be OUT of there when your lease is up. I love that alligator toy. :(

The Kennedys said...

That is terrible Beth, I am so sorry. I know you will find a good place to go, and maybe these experiences just give you the extra push you need.

Kristen said...

WOW. I'm sorry you've had to go through this. I really hope you can find a place that feels comfortable and safe for all of you. Please keep us posted.

michelle said...

I totally know the feeling! We have a great home and there are great neighborhoods above and below us but the street we live on is terrible! no sidewalk. Our neighbors on the other side of the street have two volumes...YELLINg and SCREAMING...so we are never out in the front yard. Now there are tow vacant homes on either side of the street. Good luck with your move!